Our childhood attachment patterns lend to the way we view others around us.There are three patterns of adult relationship which are secure relationship style, avoidance relationship style and ambivalent relationship style.
In the adult secure relationship style, these people will find it easy to become close with others around.He/she enjoys relying on others and doesn't not worry about being abandoned by people around.These people do not having problems developing satisfying friendship as well as relationship as they believe in others.
For adult avoidance relationship style, these people do not have fate in others. He/she will feel uneasy when people get close and have emotional commitment to them. They are afraid of depending on others as they are always suspicious of the motives of others due to the fear of being disappointed and being abandoned.
The adult ambivalent relationship style is characterized by uncertainty about relationship.These people display high levels of constant reassurance and attention from their friends and partners as they are overly dependent on people around them.They want to be close with friends and partners around them and make their friends and partner the center of their world.
So, among these three patterns of adult relationship, where do you stand? =)