Nowadays, we are so busy that we seldom have the time to get to know each neighbors who live next door. Even worst, we as co-workers may be entering the same building everyday or may even ride the same elevator, without even swaying a word more than greeting to each other. This goes on daily in different locations. We tend to cower when it comes to developing positive relationship.
Because we are busy with the demands of our work or community events, we overlook an all-important aspect for building positive relationship easily. We seldom spend our time on a regular basis with people around us that we care for, such as our family members or our friends.Thus, both the parties will lack mutual respect, love, having fun together and encouragement which will drift both the relationship apart.
You would hear people saying that He says he loves me, but he never shows it What this particular person is trying to say was that she heard it in words but was not convinced by his lack of action. Love is both an emotion and an action. Neither saying nor showing it alone is not enough. This goes for relationship between employees, colleagues and others.
For others to feel secure in the relationship, we need to express our love, care and concern toward the other party by expressing them in words and actions. Such excpressions are most powerful and convincing whenever they are expressed at anytime.