I'm Back...my absence is attributed to few factors..one of it is i m too busy because my aunt just did her operation n she admitted to the hospital since last 3 weeks...and everyone in my family was so busy n they r only able too visit her during night time...and my sis n i is the only 2 that able to take care of her because my sis just back from england n she is having her holiday now...so almost everyday after college i have to go hospital to send her food that my the other auntie cook...n her hospital is quite far,she admitted Glen Eagles its at ampang,i stuck in the traffic everyday..my grandparents came her from Kedah to visit my aunt also...but i m glad her operation is successful and she recover quite fast and everything go smoothly...i stil remember the day she had her operation,it was friday and i have no class so we waited at the hospital for her operation to be done,when she just back to her room she couldn't speak but she wanted to because she feel pain and not comfort with her bed...but my sis n i used about few minutes to understand her body laguage ,that time only i realized that bosy language is not easy to be understand,she wanted to tell us that her bed is too high,she wan us to help her to adjust but she used her finger pointed at the pillow because her hand is not so flexible to point at her bed .so my sis guess...is ur pillow to soft?too high?too hard?too low?...we just keep our guess at the pillow,we should think out of the box larh ...hahaha...finally my sis said ..is it because of ur bed?then my aunt answered as in body language...then in the day she actualy wanted to drink water,she wan us to cal nurse..this n that but we always try to guess her bosy language the sign she give...then i realized nonverbal communication occurs...ans the importance of nonverbal communication..without body language we will never able to understand people that couldn't talk...thats all for this post...